http://209.85.173.104/search?q=cache:KolfptxkpgIJ:www.therealpresence.org/archives/Chastity/Chastity_006.htm+john+hardon+grace+prayer&hl=en&ct=clnk&cd=3&gl=us&ie=UTF-8 Prayer and Chastity by Fr. John A. Hardon, S.J. Our title for the present conference is “Prayer and Chastity.” It could just as well be “Without Prayer There Can Be No Chastity.” Or again the title could be “Christian Chastity Is Impossible Without Prayer.” All that we have so far seen about Christian chastity tells us that this virtue is humanly impossible. I wish to stress the word humanly impossible. The moment we say that, we are in effect defining the meaning of divine grace. The grace that only God can give. Why Chastity is Impossible Without Prayer Over the centuries, chastity has been called the difficult virtue and Christ's teaching on chastity the difficult commandment. But that is an understatement. When Christ told us that, “without me you can do nothing,” He meant two things. He meant